Showing posts with label Letting Go. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Letting Go. Show all posts

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Enough, about DJ Montano, Celine Lopez and The Gucci Gang, it's MY Turn!

Breaking up is never fun. It is true that the end of a relationship is the beginning of mourning and HEALING... It is true that mending a broken heart will not happen overnight...

It's been quite sometime since I haven't said anything, I think it's not going to hurt just to say a
word or two - For the first time I am breaking my silence, since am also about to close this chapter of my life (just about time!).

Just for clarification...

It is not true that am moving or "running away" to the Midwest because of someone. I am not running away from someone, I am moving because I have to! I have been waiting for this chance and now it's here, am I just going to let it pass?

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Letting go...

Some things that are good to consider about letting go. When you let go of your past, of things you can not change and learn how to set things up to make you happy, you will start feeling more relief, more happiness and more joy in your life.


o Letting go does not mean you do not care, it means that you can not live your life for others.
o Letting go does not mean to isolate yourself from other, rather to understand that you can not control others, only yourself.
o Letting go is not to carry others through life, rather let them learn from their own experiences.
o Letting go is to accept things, the end result is not always under my to control.
o Letting go Is not to be responsible for others, but to care for them.
o Letting go is not to change others or blame them, rather take full responsibility for creating the life I want.
o Letting go that it is not about “fixing” it is about being motivating and supportive.
o Letting go is not to judge others, but to let them be the way they are.
o Letting go is not being overly busy controlling and being in charge, rather let others be in charge of what they want and leading their life.
o Letting go is not to be in denial, rather accept.
o Letting go is not to argue, yell at other or blame, rather look for your own mistakes and fix them if needed.
o Letting go is not to make everything the way I think I need to have it, rather take each day and enjoy it.
o Letting go is not to organize or criticize others, rather become what you dream about becoming.
o Letting go is not to roll around in the past and let it control you, rather enjoy the moment, look forward to the future and what you can do there.
o Letting go is to fear less and allow experiences in your life.
o Letting go is to fear less and enjoy life more
o Letting go is to fear less and love more.

"Don't be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin."
- Grace Hansen